Saturday, March 30, 2013

why we should be investing our 20s in relationships

I have invested few very prime years of my life in "relationships" per se but I certainly don't think if relationships should be in one's to-do list. One should rather be investing these years in something exclusive and productive. [BTW EQ does matter only when you have an IQ and attitude above a threshold! that's why when it comes to discuss EQ we start with people like Steve Jobs, we don't discuss bus-conductors and clerks].

We need to understand and accept that West lives under the fear of dying alone which is pretty far from a possibility in India. They have invested past 200 yrs in breaking relationships ( of all kind) and develop individualism and now they are on firefighting mode and trying to undo what they have done... so there concerns are sufficiently different from ours.You'd rather have to go thru a lot of social and peer pressure to stay single all your life. But yea, we do learn shitload of new stuff in different relationships! But I am not sure if its worth it because ppl always come up with different reasons to give up.:)

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